Monday, May 24, 2010

Some Funny Thoughts about Aging

A friend sent me this...enjoy the thoughts !

I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, and my loving family for less gray hair or a flatter belly. As I’ve aged, I've become kinder to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend. I don't chide myself for eating that extra cookie, or for not making my bed, or for buying that silly cement gecko that I didn't need, but looks so avant grande on my patio. I am entitled to a treat, to be messy, to be extravagant.

I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon; before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging. Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until 4 AM and sleep until noon? I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of the 60 &70's, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love..... I will.

I will walk the beach in a swim suit that is stretched over a bulging body, and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to, despite the pitying glances from the jet set. They, too, will get old.

I know I am sometimes forgetful. But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten. And I eventually remember the important things.

Sure, over the years my heart has been broken. How can your heart not break when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even when somebody’s beloved pet gets hit by a car? But broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and sterile and will never know the joy of being imperfect.

I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face.
So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could turn silver.

As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what other people think.. I don't question myself anymore. I've even earned the right to be wrong.
So, to answer your question, I like being old. It has set me free. I like the person I have become. I am not going to live forever, but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be. And I shall eat dessert every single day (if I feel like it).


ErnestoDR said...

If you travel by train, you will notice that that there are two parallel tracks. Life is like that, there are the positive and the negative aspects. Incredible wisdom, vast knowledge, and extensive experience go with aging as with deteriorating strength, eyesight and reflexes albeit the Venusian beauty or the Adonis physique.
Life is made more interesting when we pursue the positive track. We should act our age, otherwise we become incongruous with our environment. The problem begins when our body ages and our mind fails to catch up. We still think we are still strong and beautiful when we are not.
Do not be afraid to face the music and dance! You'll find a deeper joy in it!

orionjri said...

Being this old that we are is so much better than the only alternative.

So yes, we must enjoy life whilst we have it, whilst we can. We are running out of time.